Anna
01-30-2007, 01:37 PM
A SESSION FOR HER:
As indicated above, we will generally make a scene of inserting an anal toy. Use a gloved and lubricated finger to insert into the rectum until the sphincter stops involuntarily contracting. Then insert a one inch column of lube in an applicator, then insert an anal appliance. If using the bi-pole anal plug, energize it at about the 4 level while inserting the vaginal plug. Then gradually increase the power until it is just below the pain threshold. Allow her to get used to that and gradually vary both the pulse and the frequency. While doing that, gently increase the power to about 5. Then cut the frequency back to 10 and move the pulse down to about 2 to 3. My wife reports this feels like being slow fucked in both the ass and the vagina at the same time. After several minutes of this, it is time for some clit stimulation. This can be provided by fingers, tongue, the sparkler or the Rimba clips. When using the sparkler, I will reduce power to about 4, move both pulse and frequency to about 10, spread some electro lube around her clit and use the tip of the sparkler to touch her clit. I will gradually increase power while tracing her labia and clit with the tip and the shaft of the sparkler. She does not particularly like urethral insertion of the sparkler. Note: Use of the sparkler in the female should be done very carefully. The female urethra is much shorter than the male, so a 6” sparkler is likely to enter the bladder. (PES does not recommend this usage of the Sparklers. There is a much higher risk of infection when used on a female urethrally.)
We also use the Rimba clips in conjunction with the vaginal and anal plugs. The Rimba clips do require one lead, so generally we disconnect the anal appliance. We leave the anal toy in place to avoid destroying the mood. With the vaginal plug in place, put a small amount of lube on the tips of the clips, apply one on the clit hood and allow it to just rest on the clit itself. Put the other lead on the labia-minora. Again increase the power to about 4. She likes slow movement of the pulse control from 10 to about 5. Again, increase the power gradually as she can handle it. Depending on her mood, we might go through two or three passes of increasing and decreasing stimulation. She can have very powerful orgasms in any of these configurations. Or… as stated above, we might just use the anal appliances and finish with conventional sex, either in the missionary or woman astride positions. A word to the wise, if she has the bi-pole anal plug, the guy should not press his balls into exposed connectors. That is truly exciting!!
We also use the ¼” diameter sparkler putting it in her vagina and then doing conventional sex. Since the sparkler is a single pole electrode, someone must use at least one other electrode. We have also tried both sparklers in her vagina and conventional sex. It produces nice sensations, but keeping the sparklers in becomes a problem unless you just let electro stim do the work with minimal movement.
Be very careful to avoid upper body contact when each partner has one appliance. In this configuration, the connection is made through the penis and the vagina. If you have upper body contact, you are violating the “nothing above the waist” rule. (PES does not encourage both partners be connected at the same time.)
One time when I was out of town on a business trip, she said she was horny and wanted me home as soon as possible. I suggested she use the PES toys. She was reluctant to take them out. I offered to walk her through setting them up. She did and had a really satisfying solo cum.
Note from moderator: I have edited this just a bit for grammar and spelling as well as added notes regarding PES item number and names for clarification. I have also added warnings from PES as some of this couple's practices we do not recommend due to safety concerns.
As indicated above, we will generally make a scene of inserting an anal toy. Use a gloved and lubricated finger to insert into the rectum until the sphincter stops involuntarily contracting. Then insert a one inch column of lube in an applicator, then insert an anal appliance. If using the bi-pole anal plug, energize it at about the 4 level while inserting the vaginal plug. Then gradually increase the power until it is just below the pain threshold. Allow her to get used to that and gradually vary both the pulse and the frequency. While doing that, gently increase the power to about 5. Then cut the frequency back to 10 and move the pulse down to about 2 to 3. My wife reports this feels like being slow fucked in both the ass and the vagina at the same time. After several minutes of this, it is time for some clit stimulation. This can be provided by fingers, tongue, the sparkler or the Rimba clips. When using the sparkler, I will reduce power to about 4, move both pulse and frequency to about 10, spread some electro lube around her clit and use the tip of the sparkler to touch her clit. I will gradually increase power while tracing her labia and clit with the tip and the shaft of the sparkler. She does not particularly like urethral insertion of the sparkler. Note: Use of the sparkler in the female should be done very carefully. The female urethra is much shorter than the male, so a 6” sparkler is likely to enter the bladder. (PES does not recommend this usage of the Sparklers. There is a much higher risk of infection when used on a female urethrally.)
We also use the Rimba clips in conjunction with the vaginal and anal plugs. The Rimba clips do require one lead, so generally we disconnect the anal appliance. We leave the anal toy in place to avoid destroying the mood. With the vaginal plug in place, put a small amount of lube on the tips of the clips, apply one on the clit hood and allow it to just rest on the clit itself. Put the other lead on the labia-minora. Again increase the power to about 4. She likes slow movement of the pulse control from 10 to about 5. Again, increase the power gradually as she can handle it. Depending on her mood, we might go through two or three passes of increasing and decreasing stimulation. She can have very powerful orgasms in any of these configurations. Or… as stated above, we might just use the anal appliances and finish with conventional sex, either in the missionary or woman astride positions. A word to the wise, if she has the bi-pole anal plug, the guy should not press his balls into exposed connectors. That is truly exciting!!
We also use the ¼” diameter sparkler putting it in her vagina and then doing conventional sex. Since the sparkler is a single pole electrode, someone must use at least one other electrode. We have also tried both sparklers in her vagina and conventional sex. It produces nice sensations, but keeping the sparklers in becomes a problem unless you just let electro stim do the work with minimal movement.
Be very careful to avoid upper body contact when each partner has one appliance. In this configuration, the connection is made through the penis and the vagina. If you have upper body contact, you are violating the “nothing above the waist” rule. (PES does not encourage both partners be connected at the same time.)
One time when I was out of town on a business trip, she said she was horny and wanted me home as soon as possible. I suggested she use the PES toys. She was reluctant to take them out. I offered to walk her through setting them up. She did and had a really satisfying solo cum.
Note from moderator: I have edited this just a bit for grammar and spelling as well as added notes regarding PES item number and names for clarification. I have also added warnings from PES as some of this couple's practices we do not recommend due to safety concerns.