Anna
01-30-2007, 01:32 PM
A SESSION FOR HIM:
We generally start by applying an anal device, charge it up and allow it to stimulate the prostate. The stimulation causes prostatic fluids (pre-cum) to flow freely. If we are going to use the mid-ring (Penile Ring) we apply it while the penis is still flaccid, usually in the shower. A good starter configuration is the bi-polar anal plug with the bi-polar mid-ring (Penile Ring). We will gradually increase power until coarse power is at about 4 then move the pulse control slowly toward one. With the lowest pulse, gradually increase the coarse power until the involuntary contractions cause the plug to surge in and out of the anus. Muscle tension has a significant impact on the sensations felt. You can change the sensation by contracting the PC muscles or by lifting your butt off the bed by pressing your feet down on the bed. My wife also likes to do some BDSM by making me do a “V” for victory and use a crop on my thighs and buttocks. She will then have me return to lying face up. She will crank the power up to about 7. At this level, the quads and the abs begin to twitch. Unless the increase has been slow, it can become painful and Willie will wilt. With no, or a partial erection, installing the base ring is no problem. The base ring still needs to be lubricated with olive oil and a little pad of tissue placed under the brass connector as described above. With all four leads in use on the mid-ring (Penile Ring) and the anal plug, a decision must be made on where to steal a lead. We will generally take one lead from the mid-ring (Penile Ring) and put it on the base-ring. Again, back the power off, return the pulse to 10, hook a lead to the base ring, and begin to increase the power. This produces a powerful stimulation. After a little while with this she will take the sparkler and remove one lead from the anal plug. (The electrode furthest from the prostate). We do not use artificial lube with the sparkler. Just rub it in pre-cum and insert slowly. If she is kind, she will have power around 4. Even at that level inserting the sparkler makes me jump. If she is feeling devilish, she might turn it up to 5 or 6 and insert. She will then slowly run the sparkler all the way into the urethra. The sensations change as the sparkler interacts with the other electrodes (the mid, base and anal). Slowly inserting and withdrawing the sparkler results in the most heavenly feelings. We have never had UTIs using this method. Some people on the PES website appear concerned about whether the sparkler will enter the bladder. In the male, the answer is definitely not. We do urethral sounding and I have an 8” long by 11mm diameter Hagar sound and that does not enter the bladder even if I am flaccid. I can feel it in the perineum which indicates it has gone through the prostate. The key to urethral play is to be squeaky clean, lubricate and don’t force anything. The sparkler slides effortlessly into the penis and produces a very pleasant sensation when not energized. When energized, it can range from delightful to painful depending on the power level. (Please note that everyone is different and the length of the penis can affect how deeply the Sparklers insert. Also, PES encourages the use of sterile lubricant when using urethral insertion.)
We have also used the sparkler as a mid-ring, as a coronal ring and as a ring around the testicles. It is very effective in any role. We will usually save the coronal ring with amplifier for last because the sensations it produces are so strong. Again, the head of my cock is generally drenched with pre-cum so installing the coronal ring is no problem. The coronal ring is really nice when used with the base ring and the anal plug in bi-pole mode. It is also very good with the anal pacifier (single pole), the base ring, the sparkler used as a mid-ring and the coronal ring. This will generally produce a HFO (hands free orgasm) in short order. The other option is to stop after you are highly stimulated, leave the plug in him and the pacifier in her and have conventional sex. It is wild to fuck while the anal appliances are at mid-power (4 to 5) and very low pulse (about 1 to 2). Note that this is not a PES recommended configuration.
Note from moderator: I have edited this just a bit for grammar and spelling as well as added notes regarding PES item number and names for clarification. I have also added warnings from PES as some of this couple's practices we do not recommend due to safety concerns.
We generally start by applying an anal device, charge it up and allow it to stimulate the prostate. The stimulation causes prostatic fluids (pre-cum) to flow freely. If we are going to use the mid-ring (Penile Ring) we apply it while the penis is still flaccid, usually in the shower. A good starter configuration is the bi-polar anal plug with the bi-polar mid-ring (Penile Ring). We will gradually increase power until coarse power is at about 4 then move the pulse control slowly toward one. With the lowest pulse, gradually increase the coarse power until the involuntary contractions cause the plug to surge in and out of the anus. Muscle tension has a significant impact on the sensations felt. You can change the sensation by contracting the PC muscles or by lifting your butt off the bed by pressing your feet down on the bed. My wife also likes to do some BDSM by making me do a “V” for victory and use a crop on my thighs and buttocks. She will then have me return to lying face up. She will crank the power up to about 7. At this level, the quads and the abs begin to twitch. Unless the increase has been slow, it can become painful and Willie will wilt. With no, or a partial erection, installing the base ring is no problem. The base ring still needs to be lubricated with olive oil and a little pad of tissue placed under the brass connector as described above. With all four leads in use on the mid-ring (Penile Ring) and the anal plug, a decision must be made on where to steal a lead. We will generally take one lead from the mid-ring (Penile Ring) and put it on the base-ring. Again, back the power off, return the pulse to 10, hook a lead to the base ring, and begin to increase the power. This produces a powerful stimulation. After a little while with this she will take the sparkler and remove one lead from the anal plug. (The electrode furthest from the prostate). We do not use artificial lube with the sparkler. Just rub it in pre-cum and insert slowly. If she is kind, she will have power around 4. Even at that level inserting the sparkler makes me jump. If she is feeling devilish, she might turn it up to 5 or 6 and insert. She will then slowly run the sparkler all the way into the urethra. The sensations change as the sparkler interacts with the other electrodes (the mid, base and anal). Slowly inserting and withdrawing the sparkler results in the most heavenly feelings. We have never had UTIs using this method. Some people on the PES website appear concerned about whether the sparkler will enter the bladder. In the male, the answer is definitely not. We do urethral sounding and I have an 8” long by 11mm diameter Hagar sound and that does not enter the bladder even if I am flaccid. I can feel it in the perineum which indicates it has gone through the prostate. The key to urethral play is to be squeaky clean, lubricate and don’t force anything. The sparkler slides effortlessly into the penis and produces a very pleasant sensation when not energized. When energized, it can range from delightful to painful depending on the power level. (Please note that everyone is different and the length of the penis can affect how deeply the Sparklers insert. Also, PES encourages the use of sterile lubricant when using urethral insertion.)
We have also used the sparkler as a mid-ring, as a coronal ring and as a ring around the testicles. It is very effective in any role. We will usually save the coronal ring with amplifier for last because the sensations it produces are so strong. Again, the head of my cock is generally drenched with pre-cum so installing the coronal ring is no problem. The coronal ring is really nice when used with the base ring and the anal plug in bi-pole mode. It is also very good with the anal pacifier (single pole), the base ring, the sparkler used as a mid-ring and the coronal ring. This will generally produce a HFO (hands free orgasm) in short order. The other option is to stop after you are highly stimulated, leave the plug in him and the pacifier in her and have conventional sex. It is wild to fuck while the anal appliances are at mid-power (4 to 5) and very low pulse (about 1 to 2). Note that this is not a PES recommended configuration.
Note from moderator: I have edited this just a bit for grammar and spelling as well as added notes regarding PES item number and names for clarification. I have also added warnings from PES as some of this couple's practices we do not recommend due to safety concerns.